Aquarius Soul Mate

Soul Mate Test: NO is about boundaries and identification.
You have to know who you are if you want to find someone to be perfect for you. Predictably we need to become better focused about what we are trying to achieve. This is true for all and everything, from everyday practical matters to dealing with distressing feelings. The puzzle is to know how to get clarity and then to find the solutions to issues that trouble us. The 7 Words System offers a unpretentious intuitive structure that allows us to achieve a greatly improved awareness of what precisely we are trying to find. This kicks off with No. First and foremost we will need to name faithfully what we don't want, what is not useful, before we can know what we do want.

Soul Mate Test: HELLO is about openness and exchange.
Look around and see what's happening, to you, to others...learn what works for others and think about it carefully. The following step correlates with the word Hello. We will need to make ourselves open to new things if we want to open out our scope of solutions to questions arising. We surely know that? To get something different we will need to draw out our scope and look where we have not previously looked before. New dreams, new friends, new situations and new things are clearly facets of giving deliberation to something we have not formerly faced. It calls us to substitute old for new, that can tender something in adequate return for what we want to acquire.

Soul Mate Test: THANK YOU is about appreciating and valuing.
How well are you expressing your appreciation? Can you find qualities to admire in people you meet; the best qualities are usually deeper, often hidden. Between all of our choices, some are more pleasing than others and of course we want them to have a higher significance, because we appreciate them more. This is explained by the primary word Thanks. Over and over again, we overlook the importance of what we have, slip into ungratefulness and are likely to presume things will always be the way they have been before. It's more than merely good manners to reveal our appreciation for things we regard as valuable; it has a major consequence in helping us to accomplish our ambitions. Unconsciously, we are drawn to what we communicate gratefulness for, and yet it's equally accurate to say that we can to attract them to us too. We increase magnetism when we say Thanks and therefore, whenever we do this, we naturally bring things towards us.

Soul Mate Test: GOODBYE is about realization, decision, completion, and moving on.
Are you willing to realize that after finding a soul mate life has changed and will be forever different. Are you willing to change? The word Goodbye is the fourth of the 7 primary words and has to do with a course of development that has 4 clearly defined phases. They are: realization, decision, completion and moving on. Goodbye is being said to a particular stage of development, and so can be perceived simply as unreserved eradication of a workable course of action that we had been progressing towards and in future will not pursue. It is a crossroad point in our range of would-be futures. Goodbye is different from No in that it suggests that there has been a degree of some level of connection already, which now needs to end compared to No's rejection in the first place. Authentic decisions cut the past away unconditionally and that incisiveness sets up an opening of a doorway that otherwise does not materialize.

Soul Mate Test: PLEASE is about intention and cooperation.
How do you cooperate to find harmony? You do have a vision of a successful partnership? The future becomes known according to the routines of what has gone before unless we take control of it and shape it to our desire. This obliges us to have a vision of how we want it to be; this vision has to be very clear, exact and positive converted into intention. They differ don't they - vision and intention? The first is a bit illusory and the second is much more concentrated and willful. For a vision to become real there must be support. . Nothing can be finished without securing the help of other people - this takes skill, perhaps influence, , even motivation. It is not always necessary to proffer something such as money or money's worth.

Soul Mate Test: SORRY is about responsibility, remorse, repair and release.
Do you need to take responsibility and feel genuine remorse for your part in any conflicts and tensions that exist? Sorry is the hardest word and the key to real relating. Sorry, the sixth word, is best seen as repairing damage done because we've been inattentive or neglectful to the needs or wants of someone else. The best plan is to make sure we forestall the need to say it by being thoughtful beforehand. For what reason? Well it's because anyone we upset could easily be inclined to act against our better purposes and lower our chances of success, so it is simply more prudent to be concerned about others as well as ourselves. It is all to do with being responsible, having a degree of concern for someone whom we've upset and making atonement when we've gone astray . Only then is it possible to prevent or repair offense and let go of the everlasting unpleasantness that otherwise would develop and fester.

Soul Mate Test: YES is about accepting and surrender.
Sometimes unacceptable behaviour just has to be accepted. How tolerant are you? The last phase of our 7 Words structure relates with acceptance; there are instances when we simply have to bow to what we cannot change. The word is Yes. It would be nice wouldn't it if we were able to make the world exactly the way we envision it - but in reality we can't. We always need to take what comes, and to take what is not exactly what we asked for. The paramount technique is to have conviction that everything in the long run turns around to our advantage, that the modifications to our plans are all improvements when seen in the perspective of the longer term. Surely it's not easy to see it when we are still close and attached to our desires of course not! In spite of that pause a while and you may well see that the unexpected occurrences, the surprises and disenchantments are actually the best bits camouflaged as misfortune.

James Burgess 2008