Could this ever really happen? It is not only possible but probable. There are mental judo techniques that when performed properly no ex can withstand. Would you like your ex to battle with you instead of against you to save your relationship? You can stop the pain and get your ex to come crawling back.
Right now you are probably thinking, yeah right, they won't even give me the time of day. I appreciate how you feel. Understand thousands of others have felt exactly the same way. However, when they found the system I am speaking of, they couldn't believe their eyes. They were getting back together, and in record time. Using specialized techniques, you can get your ex to come crawling back
It's not too late, yet.
Even if they are with someone else, this can be used to your advantage. Believe it or not, the more small battles you seem to lose, the better your chance at winning the war. Rebound relationships just do not work out. Just continue on with your battle plan, and trust you will prove the rule.
Do not panic.
What will not work is trying to make your ex jealous, pleading, and begging. Have you wondered why rubys and emeralds are so expensive? They are perceived to be rare and hard to come by. However, you can go to any creek and gather all the rocks you can carry for free. if you leave messages and text them multiple times a day, they know they can have you back. The only thing you will accomplish is proving your desperation to them.
They are thinking of you.
Humans have selective memories. If you remove what you are doing to upset your ex (stalking or threatening), the human mind will eliminate the bad memories and only live the good ones. Prove me right. Think about a friend you had a tift with a few years back. The first things that come to mind are the fun you had together, not the fight. TRY as hard as you want, and you will only be able to remember small amounts of the fight.
People's biggest fear
Humans are desperately afraid of being considered inconsistent by others, and even more by considering themselves inconsistent. People do whatever they have done in the past to be consistent. That is why alcoholics are never cured. They see themselves as problem drinkers, and they are. This is the definition of a self fulfilling prophesy.
The primary reason your ex called it quits is because they either saw you as inconsistent, or saw themselves as inconsistent being with you. If you dig deep enough one of the two will emerge. The only thing you must do is prove to them it will be inconsistent to be without you. Yes this is both manipulative and effective. Don't worry, they will never know.
Here is the proof.
This story is paraphrased from Robert Chaldini's book - Persuasion, The Art of Influence.
People went into a suburban neighborhood and asked 100 homeowners if they could put a large gaudy billboard in their yard that said “Keep California Beautiful”. 97 said no. They then asked 100 different homeowners if they would put a small sticker on their garage window that said “Keep California beautiful”. It was such a small request 97 said yes. Two weeks later the same 97 people who said yes to the small sticker were asked if they would allow them to put up the same unsightly gaudy billboard in their yard. Over 2 thirds said yes. It was consistent with what they had done in the past.
